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The Power of Positive Phrasing

Parents, do you feel like you are constantly saying “No/Stop/Don’t” to your child? Learning about how to use the power of positive phrasing can be an asset for parents everywhere.
 
Children are on the receiving end of hundreds of instructions every day. Yet, many times these commands are both abrupt and negative in their delivery. Why? In the real world, we would never speak to another adult in that way.
 
Children naturally consider adults to be leaders. Barking orders will not prove who is in charge. In fact, it may cause your child to feel discouraged and resentful when they are given a set of directions to follow.
 
So, how do we put a positive spin on the way we are delivering instructions, and also ensure that the child will comply? Try phrasing your request as a positive statement.  By doing so, you are teaching your child what you want to see them doing more of.  Add in a little positive reinforcement after they complete the task and you will see the power of positive phrasing come to life!
 
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  • Have you ever tried a visual rubric for student self-assessment? This is a great tool for cueing a child to do his or her best work because it gives a picture description of what "best work" looks like. I have found visual rubrics particularly useful for children who rush through their work, as it puts the emphasis on quality and effort, not the rate of completion.
  • Have you ever tried a visual rubric for student self-assessment? This is a great tool for cueing a child to do his or her best work because it gives a picture description of what "best work" looks like. I have found visual rubrics particularly useful for children who rush through their work, as it puts the emphasis on quality and effort, not the rate of completion.
  • Have you ever tried a visual rubric for student self-assessment? This is a great tool for cueing a child to do his or her best work because it gives a picture description of what "best work" looks like. I have found visual rubrics particularly useful for children who rush through their work, as it puts the emphasis on quality and effort, not the rate of completion.
  • Have you ever tried a visual rubric for student self-assessment? This is a great tool for cueing a child to do his or her best work because it gives a picture description of what "best work" looks like. I have found visual rubrics particularly useful for children who rush through their work, as it puts the emphasis on quality and effort, not the rate of completion.
  • Have you ever tried a visual rubric for student self-assessment? This is a great tool for cueing a child to do his or her best work because it gives a picture description of what "best work" looks like. I have found visual rubrics particularly useful for children who rush through their work, as it puts the emphasis on quality and effort, not the rate of completion.
  • Have you ever tried a visual rubric for student self-assessment? This is a great tool for cueing a child to do his or her best work because it gives a picture description of what "best work" looks like. I have found visual rubrics particularly useful for children who rush through their work, as it puts the emphasis on quality and effort, not the rate of completion.
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  • How can I encourage my child to keep a mask on his or her face? This is a question that has raised concerns with parents everywhere. Whether you are currently living in a state where wearing a mask (for children over age 2) is now mandatory, or you just want to ensure protection for your child and others, it is important to prepare. Check out these seven quick tips designed to help make wearing a mask easier on everyone.
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